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Broke up with girlfriend :(...................> :)
oh well, where do i start.........
I went to hers yesturday to see her and she was with her friend ahd she told me not to when i was at her door virtually so i knocked anyway as it took ages to ride there. I go in and we have a little talk nd she sais wev'e 'outgrown eacother' ?????
So i was like WDF as i thought we was going good.
Then i rode home in tears, then later found out that she after breaking up had gone out with a boy i know in his car until about 1 in the morning.
Then today she was at her grans in her car and then when i got to hers to drop some stuff off her car was at her house but this boy she was with had given her a lift back to ger grans.
I phoned her when i got back home and said ' I know you've been with him last nite and can you please tell me if anything happned so i know where I stand' and she came out with ' its not your buisness anymore' and then hung up.
The thing thats upset me most is her car is the fiesta and ive done everything to it and also she just came out with it randomly.
And she said she been feeling like it for a while but i noticed shes changed since weve been hanging around with this boy.
Shes out now, probally with him and I cant contact her so I've given up totally - 2 and a half years just lost.
i have a good mind to beat the living s**t outta him but I dont know weather that will help as I know i still love her some way but hate her.
John
I went to hers yesturday to see her and she was with her friend ahd she told me not to when i was at her door virtually so i knocked anyway as it took ages to ride there. I go in and we have a little talk nd she sais wev'e 'outgrown eacother' ?????
So i was like WDF as i thought we was going good.
Then i rode home in tears, then later found out that she after breaking up had gone out with a boy i know in his car until about 1 in the morning.
Then today she was at her grans in her car and then when i got to hers to drop some stuff off her car was at her house but this boy she was with had given her a lift back to ger grans.
I phoned her when i got back home and said ' I know you've been with him last nite and can you please tell me if anything happned so i know where I stand' and she came out with ' its not your buisness anymore' and then hung up.
The thing thats upset me most is her car is the fiesta and ive done everything to it and also she just came out with it randomly.
And she said she been feeling like it for a while but i noticed shes changed since weve been hanging around with this boy.
Shes out now, probally with him and I cant contact her so I've given up totally - 2 and a half years just lost.
i have a good mind to beat the living s**t outta him but I dont know weather that will help as I know i still love her some way but hate her.
John
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Sorry to hear that fella. If she aint got the respect for you to talk to you about it then do the simple thing and f**k her right off.
This may help:
http://www.fiestaturbo.com/forums/si-t- ... -vt102442/
This may help:
http://www.fiestaturbo.com/forums/si-t- ... -vt102442/
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good advice there mate sounds like a good idea and im gna take the advice .
good advice there mate sounds like a good idea and im gna take the advice .
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Oh s**t, Sorry to hear all this happen mate but maybe it is time for you to take a step back and let her have her way im sure you will be either getting back together or been friends cause after 2.5 yrs you do kinda get to know somebody quite well!
Need a chat just message me on msn fella!
Tiller
Need a chat just message me on msn fella!
Tiller
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SimonT :Sorry to hear that fella. If she aint got the respect for you to talk to you about it then do the simple thing and f**k her right off.
This may help:
http://www.fiestaturbo.com/forums/si-t- ... -vt102442/
Invaluable advice in there
Oh yeah, give the bloke a bit of a slapping as well, it'll make you feel a whole lot better even if the cnut grasses you so you end up with a Police caution
As for the wench be safe in the knowledge Karma will deal with her, what goes around comes around
Can you hear me now? Hear you, I can see you, ya dick
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S1 :As for the wench be safe in the knowledge Karma will deal with her, what goes around comes around
Indeed. Turn the other cheek - you will be amazed how well fate deals with those who piss you off.
Sorry to hear of your bad luck chap - keep your chin up and follow Si's advice - and all the best of luck!
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lol she just popped round and got a lift from that lad and she got some stuff that was hers - I got pissed off so went to hit him as he was in his car and he pulled out infront of a fookin 4x4 with her in the road.
I think he knows not to come anywhere near me anymore.
I think he knows not to come anywhere near me anymore.
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What would hitting the bloke do? it certainly wouldnt solve anything
Move on, if she can chuck a relationship of 2 and a half years away just like that then she aint worth it..
How old are you by the way ?
Move on, if she can chuck a relationship of 2 and a half years away just like that then she aint worth it..
How old are you by the way ?
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well hitting the guy wud defo make me feel alot betta.....not for long but for a while and im 16 nearly 17
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Your still young mate..
I guarantee in 6 months time you'll looks back and be glad you got rid of her... people who change like that arent worth it mate.
Chin up and move on
I guarantee in 6 months time you'll looks back and be glad you got rid of her... people who change like that arent worth it mate.
Chin up and move on
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Forget it, move on. If she can treat you like that, then she doesn't feel there's a chance, and there's nothing you can do to change that. Sorry dude
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feckin ell mate, thats a school disco relationship
get over it, your still a boy !! plenty more fish in the sea SO GET OUT THERE AND GET BANGIN THEM !!!!
Jeeez, nuff said.
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S1 :x_Tanya_x :bugger off, i prefer older guys
I'm somewhat older
You're really pretty
Love that!
Using the mans language in another post, roughly translated you said:
'I'd eventually like to have sex with you'
What are you attached to Tanya? a wall? tree? squirrel perhaps?
You can use my car when you prise the keys out of my cold dead hands
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sphinx :S1 :x_Tanya_x :bugger off, i prefer older guys
I'm somewhat older
You're really pretty
Love that!
Using the mans language in another post, roughly translated you said:
'I'd eventually like to have sex with you'
What are you attached to Tanya? a wall? tree? squirrel perhaps?
loving the sarcasm
you'll see "who" im attached too as he'll more than likely post an arsey reply on here
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Well, in that case, this is a message to Tanya's squirrel.
I'm only having a laugh (it's S1 you wanna be angry with, he's over there *points*)
I'm only having a laugh (it's S1 you wanna be angry with, he's over there *points*)
You can use my car when you prise the keys out of my cold dead hands
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Right people - had a propper chat to her and him.
He, as being a sort of mate before it all happned I didnt get angry with him on the phone as it isnt worth it.
I asked him if anything happned with them two and he said no, which I bealeave but they had been meeting up and he does like her alot.
She said when I saw her today that just have a break for about 2 weeks or so then she MAY get back with me ( which I would like ).
So I asked him not to meet up with her today and he hasnt ( as far as I know ) and I said ' if you want to meet up with her I would prefer it if you just taked outside her house and not went off to places as I would like to be friends and he said yeah ok.
He also asked if i love her and I said yeah and he said ok i'll have a talk with her as i think he would prefer me to be with her.
But gna gave some sun in that two weeks and see what its all like then.
And heres the only pic I have left as i got in a mood and deleted all the others.
He, as being a sort of mate before it all happned I didnt get angry with him on the phone as it isnt worth it.
I asked him if anything happned with them two and he said no, which I bealeave but they had been meeting up and he does like her alot.
She said when I saw her today that just have a break for about 2 weeks or so then she MAY get back with me ( which I would like ).
So I asked him not to meet up with her today and he hasnt ( as far as I know ) and I said ' if you want to meet up with her I would prefer it if you just taked outside her house and not went off to places as I would like to be friends and he said yeah ok.
He also asked if i love her and I said yeah and he said ok i'll have a talk with her as i think he would prefer me to be with her.
But gna gave some sun in that two weeks and see what its all like then.
And heres the only pic I have left as i got in a mood and deleted all the others.
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you gonna take her back?
hope it all works out bud and you get what you want but as thhey say plenty more fish in the sea
hope it all works out bud and you get what you want but as thhey say plenty more fish in the sea
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mate, that 2 weeks thing......s**t!
Always is, always will be.
Its a tactic they like to use so that they dont have to say i dont want to be with you, it also means they can string you along incase the other idea they had doesnt turn out to be aas much fun as they had hoped. I know you would be quite happy to say you want her back, but trust me who has been through hell over the past 4-5 months with my ex.....they are out to get you, to hurt you and s**t on you.
move on, find someone who is better because they are out there. It has taken me nigh on 2 months to realise that you need to shrug your shoulders at them and think if it is meant to be and they really do want to be with you it will happen.
Just go out and live your life, you dont have to go looking for anyone but if it does happen.....all the better
Get drunk, get stoned, get laid......
Always is, always will be.
Its a tactic they like to use so that they dont have to say i dont want to be with you, it also means they can string you along incase the other idea they had doesnt turn out to be aas much fun as they had hoped. I know you would be quite happy to say you want her back, but trust me who has been through hell over the past 4-5 months with my ex.....they are out to get you, to hurt you and s**t on you.
move on, find someone who is better because they are out there. It has taken me nigh on 2 months to realise that you need to shrug your shoulders at them and think if it is meant to be and they really do want to be with you it will happen.
Just go out and live your life, you dont have to go looking for anyone but if it does happen.....all the better
Get drunk, get stoned, get laid......
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yeah im gna do wot u said but if she duz come back i'll prob take her back aslong as she grovels lol ( if i used right word )
but not even gna think about her in that 2 weeks im gna call her or wait for her to call me at the time and see wots its like.
but not even gna think about her in that 2 weeks im gna call her or wait for her to call me at the time and see wots its like.
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Steve1127 :everyone says theres plenty more fish in the sea but i cant seem to catch anything??
whats the best bait to use?
Same as, plus everyone says to just get over it and move on but it really isnt as easy as that to be honest.
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Steve1127 :everyone says theres plenty more fish in the sea but i cant seem to catch anything??
whats the best bait to use?
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Project_XR2i_Trackcar :Steve1127 :everyone says theres plenty more fish in the sea but i cant seem to catch anything??
whats the best bait to use?
Rohypnol
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Project_XR2i_Trackcar :Steve1127 :everyone says theres plenty more fish in the sea but i cant seem to catch anything??
whats the best bait to use?
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most excellent advise!
I can vouce for you mate, saying it isnt easy to get over....far from it. But sometimes there is nothing you can do. Say your piece, tell her you still want her and let her do what she has to do.
Like I said, if it happens, it will happen. Keep in contact, stay friends.... but enjoy yourself. You need to go out with your mates, fortunatly for me mine came back from uni just in time and I've been able to go and enjoy meself!
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