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[fezanw]

When your in a relationship and your other comes out with 'this isnt working...its not you its me"

When else would that work?

I cant imagine an employer saying it. or a doctor....
so why do we accept it?

just a statement... was thinking the other day

[jayrs]

because its the only time the woman tells the truth, read between the lines, shes basicly saying its not you, its me, im not good enough for you, you can do better than me etc etc



what ever way they mean it, if they gunna ditch ya they gunna ditch ya, accepting it is the only thing you can do, but if the wife ever said it to me i would prob laugh in her face, didnt say i wouldnt belive her though

[LeePFRST]

You know when a woman says "its not you, its me", it actually means "its you, you buffoon!"

[Kittie]

You know when a woman says "its not you, its me", it actually means "its you, you buffoon!"

Yes, you're totally right there! But there's also a caring 'I don't want to hurt your feelings' element to it.

Your employer might say it, just differently, like 'this position isn't fulfilling enough for your talents' or some other nutsack! Actually means you are s**t and we don't want you!

[Luke2008]

women are a strange breed really

had an ex finish with me... i want to be alone, have some alone time, be single etc she said, within a week she was shagging another bloke lol

just the way it goes really

[Ruishy1]

women are a strange breed really

had an ex finish with me... i want to be alone, have some alone time, be single etc she said, within a week she was shagging another bloke lol

just the way it goes really

Hope for your sake she wasnt shagging him before she told you that mate, know a few lassies that have done that

[frstvanman]

always the way.

[M1K3Y_B]

Its an easy thing to say, so they use it.

You haven't really got a lot you can say back to that.

[andymac]

You haven't really got a lot you can say back to that.

They'd like to think that but no, I can think of a few choice responses.

[dontpannic]

You haven't really got a lot you can say back to that.

They'd like to think that but no, I can think of a few choice responses.

Yep. "What the f**k do you mean you fat Bic™" springs instantly to mind. That way YOU have control over who finishes it

[Ruishy1]

personally i would respond with " phew, thank god for that ! ive been panicing about how to tell you ive been shaging your best mate !, oh well, see ya "

Id like to see the Bic™ walk away with her head held high from that onslaught

[jayrs]

yeah but for that to work, shagging of the best mate would have to happen

[Ruishy1]

not really, as for one, you have diffused her power over the situation and put you in control, and second, she is gonna go haywire and blame the best mate for cheating, and probably not believe her when she says she didnt, thus ending a friendship

And who says vengeance isnt fun

[jayrs]

hmm, yes i see your point, but if the shagging did happen it could be followed up with, here smell my fingers...

[Ruishy1]

hmm, yes i see your point, but if the shagging did happen it could be followed up with, here smell my fingers...

that it could mate, unfortunately, i have done something similar
Not too a woman, but a bloke who was a complete arse, long story short in the middle of a club i walk up and say the above,
He looked downright confused, and i just stood there smiling

[jayrs]

[Ruishy1]

ive done some right daft things in my time, but that one had me, and all my mates, as well as a few bouncers in tears

[jayrs]

[MotorcyclesFish]

It doesn't matter how much a girl feels she's left the relationship with the upper hand (strangely important to them I find); if you then literally do not make any contact with them ever again, they go absolutely s**t. It's how I operate and it never fails to have people sending texts and badgering mutual friends to ask me to talk to them again.

Women, huh? Can't live with them, garden's all patio already.

[filtra]

Avoid women like the plague, heart breakers.

But yeah, that quote translates to:

"I'm a slut and I can't help it. Your a good guy, I don't want to hurt your feelings, because I can't learn from my lessons regarding the grass not always being greener, but theres nothing I can do about being immature, selfish, unconfident along with all the underlying issues I have, so lets end it here. Thanks. Laters."

HTH

[M440]

revenge is a dish best served cold is all I can say....

[likhary]

i m newbie, 'I don't want to hurt your feelings' element to it. Your employer might say it, just differently,